Becoming a more attractive person is just as much about what you don’t do and don’t say as it is about what you do and who you are. One of the most effective ways of identifying your potential flaws which is also a great way to motivate yourself to eliminate it is to observe others …
Parents’ Wishes, Social Pressure, And Making The Right Dating Choices
Women often say that girls don’t dress up for guys; they dress up for other girls. I recently heard a friend, who got recently married, say that girls don’t even marry for themselves, or at least not just for themselves; they also marry for their friends and family, because that’s what they expect from her. …
Stop Falling for Dating Advice Scams
Do you want to know how the dating advice industry easily deceives both men and women into buying all kinds of dating advice books and programs that are bound to fail? The answer is very simple. The idea is very similar to the marketing strategies used in many if not most other industries – promising …
Why You Are Still Single – An Honest Checklist For Women
If you have been single for way longer than you would like to, chances are that this is for one of the following reasons that you might or might not have considered so far. It’s time to take an honest look at whether one or more of the points below applies to you. Addressing most …
How to build an autumn date wardrobe to impress
It is hard not to love dating when autumn rolls around again. The change in the weather opens a host of dating opportunities which you just can’t get any other time of the year. From romantic walks through crisp piles of leaves to enjoying that first pub drink in front of an open fire, there …
A Message to US Women from a Young Female from Singapore
The following comment was posted on one of the online articles about gender relations in the US: “US women will hate me, but I’ll say it. It’s not feminism that is the problem – it’s coz women in the US took it too far. I’m from Singapore. Contrary to what they’ll have you believe, asian women …
Why the phrase high maintenance is a red flag in the dating world
What do you think when you hear the phrase high maintenance? Do you instantly think about somebody who puts a tremendous amount of time and effort into their appearance? A person who expects a high standard of living and can ultimately be hard work to date? Some would say, a ‘princess’. And let’s face it, …
Bragging Is A Major Turn-Off to Both Men or Women
Bragging is one of my personal pet peeves in people in any social, professional or romantic context. Bragging is as unattractive in men as it is in women. Usually, when someone brags about how wonderful they are and how accomplished they are, it makes me roll my eyes. When I hear someone talk about how honest, …
How to Avoid Writing a Cliche, Boring Dating Profile
An online dating profile doesn’t have to be long and very detailed to be interesting or even captivating. Here is an example of discrete parts of women’s actual dating profiles from a major, free dating site: The first profile is not necessarily terrible, but it is so boring and cliche, because every other profile pretty much …
How to protect yourself from romance scams
We’ve all heard the stories. Dating scams hit the headlines on a depressingly regular basis, highlighting heartless attempts to trick targets into parting with large sums of money. When attempts to scam targets are successful, they leave behind a trail of heartbreak and debt as the criminal disappears into thin air. While it can feel …