We all roll our eyes openly or mentally when looking at certain pictures of others, when we find them to be lame or ridiculous (or both). But, do all of your pictures on social media and dating apps pass the eye roll test? Both, the guy and the girl below are quite attractive and they …
Date ideas in North London
London offers a wealth of choice for fantastic first date ideas. There is so much available it can be hard to narrow down where to head with a new love interest. Whether you are looking for something on your doorstep or you’re both up for exploring what’s on offer in a different neck of the …

How to set social media boundaries in a relationship
How much does your phone dominate your spare time? A typical evening at home in front of the TV can often be punctuated with a stream of interruptions from your mobile phone as messages, notifications and calls pour in. It is common to see diners at restaurants with their devices perched close to their plates …

Who pays when you go on a first date?
It’s always been a thorny issue but the debate about who pays on dates is becoming more relevant than ever given the rising cost of living. Even before prices skyrocketed, it was a hotly debated topic of who is responsible for paying for the first and subsequent dates. Ask for opinions on the matter on …

Top tips for getting over a painful break-up
Sadly, it’s a situation most of us have found ourselves in – some of us many times over. The break-up of a relationship can be devastating, leaving you feeling heartbroken and struggling to imagine what life will look like without that all-important person in it. It can be irrelevant whether you initiated the split, whether …

Why the “What Do You Do for a Living?” is Such a Bad Question to Ask
“So, what do you do for a living?” – This is one of the most common yet also the most cliche, unoriginal questions that people, especially women, like to ask as soon as they meet someone new or as soon as they show up on that first date. This question, when being asked too soon, is …

How to Ask a Guy Out Without Asking Him Out
Women often find themselves in a situation where they really want to ask out a guy who they regularly see (at work, school, at a local store, etc). However, for the obvious reasons – fear of being rejected or coming across as too forward / desperate – they never do ask the guy out. The guy …

Don’t Let Your Smartphone Downgrade Your Online Dating Expeirence (Video)
If you are looking to find a real connection in the online dating world with a person who will be very special to you, there is no way around it – the only way to get that person’s attention and develop that special connection and chemistry online is through a meaningful, interesting dialogue. Whether you are …

Cost of living crisis: why low-cost date ideas are rising in popularity
It’s a scenario we are all very familiar with at the moment. You open a menu and can’t quite believe how much the prices have increased since the last time you went out. When you ask for your bill after a night of wining and dining you are surprised at the total you’ve managed to …

Why High Quality Women Keep Meeting Low Quality Men
So many single women who apparently have a lot to offer in terms of being smart, accomplished, and generally serious about their life, complain that they don’t meet enough “high quality” men. In the video below, I make three practical observations about this problem, and the specific steps that any woman in this type of …