While there is nothing unusual about having a type when it comes to dating, we all know somebody who is guilty of taking it a bit too far. Think about that colleague who is obsessed with only dating glamourous blondes, or your friend who won’t even look twice at somebody unless they are over 6ft …

Watch out for the dark triad in the dating world
Hands up who has heard of the dark triad? It may well be the first time you’ve come across the term but it’s well worth getting clued up on what it refers to in case you ever come across a dark triad in the dating world. The dark triad is used to describe people …

How to Let Your Femininity Shine Early On
It’s not a secret that men are attracted to women who are feminine on just about any fundamental level – biologically, physiologically and sexually, and of course in their basic behavior and social interactions with others. Every little action and mannerism from a woman’s movement, her voice, the way she moves her hair, sits down, …

An Essential Step To Make Bumble Work Better For You
The other day I glanced at a friend’s Bumble inbox. Every girl messaged him the same thing – “Are you originally from the bay area?” At first, this looked really lame and unoriginal to me, but then I thought – how can I blame the girls for sending these types of message, and how can …

The Social Mask We Wear When Meeting People And Dating
This statement about a social mask is made by one of the dating coaches for women I respect the most. When I saw it last night, it had really made me stop and think about its far reaching applications for a while. It talks about and says something so critically important for both men and …

Why do people behave so badly in the digital dating world?
We are all familiar with the bad behaviour that takes place on online dating apps. From ghosting to breadcrumbing, and everything in between, you may have experienced first-hand the emotional hazards that are commonplace in the digital dating world. Daters have to navigate a plethora of online dating bad behaviours, explains a recent BBC article …

Arguably Still The Single Best Place to Meet Quality Singles
Despite the many changes in dating dynamics over the last two decades – one thing appears to no have changed. Whether you are a guy or a woman and whether you are in your early 20’s or late 50’s or anywhere in between, one of the absolute best places to meet quality singles – men …

Does Calling Yourself an “Independent Woman” Flatter You?
We humans are far from perfect and far from being perfectly logical. Our perception, rather than objective facts, determine our responses to what we hear and see. This applies to dating and specifically – to online dating – as much as to anything else. Just ask yourself – when a guy tells you that he …

When He/She is Late for Your Date, but Doesn’t Apologize?
Suppose your date or someone you have started seeing is about half an hour or more late to meet you without letting you know in advance. Depending on how many things you had to do and rearrange to be there on time, you might be more or less upset about it. Then, when she shows …

An Example of Dishonest, Bad Dating Advice for Women
The above video is a classic example of dishonest, ineffective bad dating advice for women. Lets look at the tips that each of the three women get v what it should have been: Joanne – she is being told that she needs to “give guys a chance”. However, the very first thing she actually needs …