Most people’s online conversation on Bumble, Tinder and other dating apps actually die after sending and receiving just one message for one simple reason: they do nothing to keep the conversation going, i.e. they don’t ask the other person any questions to develop a minimally interesting conversation. Both sides are guilty of it – the …
A female reader requested to have her dating profile reviewed and provide my general thoughts on it. Here is the profile: Here are my general observations: This female dating profile is short and to the point, which I like. However, it has several serious issues: It opens up with bragging, which is both cliche and …
1. You Have a Generic, Boring Profile If your profile sounds just like every other girl’s profile, you can’t expect to attract that special “needle in a haystack” guy that you wish you could meet. You must make your profile stand out and make it sound more interesting than the rest. If you profile consist mostly of …
Read the excerpt from two actual female online dating profiles below and ask yourself whether there is anything wrong with them: Profile No., 1. “My Self Summary: I am a happy, positive and energetic person. I have no complaints or regrets about my life experiences because they have shaped me into the person I am. Working hard …
The video below proves two simple and irrefutable facts about men and about dating 1. Men will go to great lengths to have a shot at having sex with an attractive woman, however stupid or obnoxious she might sound. Yes, many of them don’t read the profiles and just look at the pictures, because they …
After working with several dozen of men and women on making their online dating profiles more interesting and attractive, it is clear to me that he number one mistake that both men and women make when writing that very first e-mail to a potential partner online is writing a message which is very generic and which looks …
I like the CMB concept. Connecting people based on mutual likes, and limiting the number of people you can connect with should make the process of meeting and talking to people on this app less tiring than on Tinder and other similar site. Limiting the amount of time you are able communicate with someone before …
Redundancy makes any writing less compelling and less captivating to a reader, be it fiction, non-fiction or an online dating profile. Having worked with a large number of women on improving their dating profiles, I have been noticing a common pattern among them to use the same two words that do not really add anything …
Why do so many people of all ages, especially in bigger cities, fill their evenings with pointless coffee and drinks dates night after night besides the elusive hope of being smitten by a stranger in 30 minutes which almost never happens? The main reason for this serial online dating syndrome is that when it comes …
Take a hard look at your OkCupid/Match dating profile. What does it say about you? Is it engaging and interesting is it’s just another typical cliche, boring dating profile that looks just like anyone else’s? Remember – like in most other aspects of life, when it comes to dating profiles – every word you use …