There are three cliche date questions that people seem to ask each other when they first meet or on their first date that are as common as they are annoying. Try to avoid these types of questions and you will likely come across a more refreshingly interesting on your future dates:
Avoiding Common Mistakes with Men
Commitment Issues – Ten Reasons You Are Still Single
There are several main reasons a guy won’t commit to a woman he started seeing or has been dating for a while. Although, for obvious reasons, every situation is very unique and different, there are common obstacles out there that that lead to commitment issues and prevent many women from finding and enjoying a committed …
Being Loud and Obnoxious Doesn’t Make You Attractive to Guys
I am sitting at a small Starbucks store on a rainy Saturday afternoon. It’s quiet inside. Everyone seems to be reading or working on their computer. An attractive, feminine looking, stylish Asian woman in her early to mid thirties walks in and sits down. Based on her appearance I can’t help but conclude that she …
Does Being Defensive Hurt Your Relationship?
Recently, one of the readers asked the following questions:
Do Men Really Like Chasing Women?
Almost every popular dating advice book for women out there says that men like chasing women, and that guys chase the women they really like, want to go out with and date. These books urge women to make themselves deliberately less available and play hard to get in just about every way, so that the guy is forced to prove himself and …
Why You Should Let Men Take The Lead in Approaching You (Guest Article)
I have a friend who has tried everything to find love. She attends tons of social events, has lots of friends, and is very active in sport events and activities where she has many opportunities to meet and interact with guys. But she is always the one approaches guys and casually exchanges numbers with them …
One Cliche Question That Will Kill Chemistry On Your Date
As I have pointed out in a number of my videos, previous articles, and audio programs, analyzing the process of dating with your date kills basic romantic mystery tension faster than almost anything else. Therefore, seemingly harmless statements or questions that get into the dating process on a first date or one of the first dates are likely …
Don’t Tolerate Second-Class Behavior on Dates
The screen shot on the left was submitted by a reader who shared that this texting exchange took place shortly after he left a girl he met for a first date about 15 minutes into it, when she got on her phone and talked or about 10 minutes about something that was completely trivial. The …
Five Types of Guys To Avoid At All Costs (Guest Posting)
How can you know when and where you are going to meet the love of your life? Many of us understand that nobody is perfect and are willing to give every guy a chance. And in spite of being taught not to judge a book by its cover, there are several exceptions to this rule …