I overheard a woman in her probably late 20’s ask her friend how her date went the other night with this guy she befriended on Facebook. She said it wasn’t a “fuck yes”, apparently quoting Mark Manson’s infamous article, and she won’t be seeing him again. I love that article. I believe it’s a must read for …
My personal observations suggest that there are two mindsets that may be hurting your dating life: 1. assuming too much and too soon; 2. generalizing and stereotyping way too much. Both of these mindsets are particularly harmful because they affect every stage of men women’s dating life – from meeting guys and having that first …
I am sure you have heard guys use the terms “unapproachable”, “stuck-up”, “intimidating” in reference to certain women. These are the same women who are known to be so difficult to approach and meet because of a certain energy that these women radiate. Most guys who go out will run into many stuck-up women, who …
Today, I have received a common from one of the readers to the posting about whether men are attracted to smart, successful women. To me the fact that the writer responds that way to the posting is a clear indicator of how many obstacles she will have in her interactions with men unless a fundamental …
It is often noted that one of the mistakes that single women make is looking for a guy who is nothing short of perfect, thereby missing out on many great guys by dismissing them for all kinds of insignificant, petty reasons way too early, before these women give those guys and themselves a real chance. …
Some women believe that one way to demonstrate that they are free and independent is by constantly reminding the guys they are dealing with and who they go out with that no one can control and no one can tell them what to do. These women do the opposite from what the guy might ask …
Too many single women are afraid to show that they are interested in a guy when they are in fact interested. These women face an internal, socially conditioned barrier of fear of coming across as desperate, needy, too easy, etc. They believe that it’s wrong to come across as interested in a guy and that …
I keep hearing stories from my friends about how they travel to Europe for just a few weeks and end up falling in love with someone while there, after being single in their hometown for a long time and not being able to meet anyone they would care for, for years. I also hear about …
I am not the biggest fan of being a “challenge” when it comes to dating, at least not as it is presented by some sources of dating advice. These are the blogs and books that suggest that making yourself unavailable, taking longer than you normally would to return e-mails and phone call, etc., would actually …
This posting is a response to whether it’s ok to let a guy by you a drink. I would like to address a few specific parts of that article that suggest to me that the author has some fundamental misunderstanding of men and the dynamics between men and women in bars and clubs from a male …