Some women believe that one way to demonstrate that they are free and independent is by constantly reminding the guys they are dealing with and who they go out with that no one can control and no one can tell them what to do. These women do the opposite from what the guy might ask them to do in the most trivial and unimportant situations just for the sake of showing that they can. Having your actions governed by the impulse to do the opposite just to prove how free you are is hardly a genuine freedom. This kind of behavior rather makes you look like a victim of your own past and is hardly flattering.
