Talking too much on a date or before that first date when you just met someone new and have been chatting with them online is one of the most unattractive things a man or a woman can do. Excessive chattiness literally kills romantic interest and attraction where it might have actually had potential. We have all been there – we have been on a date with someone we thought was attractive physically, but who “neutralized” our attraction and turned us off completely by talking too much and making us tired of their company. We have all known someone who drained us by talking way too much about themselves, their lives, and their various opinions on things, or even worse – their accomplishments or conversely – their problems. That person usually dominates the conversation and makes you feel like you are listening to a radio. We often need a few good hours to “recover” from hanging out with such a friend. Just go out anywhere and notice that usually, there is someone in a group of people, who speaks way more than everyone else and even way more than everyone else combined. It would appear that he or she is giving a speech and the rest of the group are the audience in that situation.
