Some of the most “single” women who are literally obsessed with meeting guys that I have known and whose behavior I observed also struck as the most unapproachable and unfriendly looking. In an attempt to avoid at all costs coming across as too eager and too desperate, they go to another extreme and act like they don’t want anyone to talk to them. Angry faces, sunglasses, arrogant walk and body language – these are just some of the things that these women seem to use as some kind of self defense mechanism against being perceived as vulnerable or lonely.
As popular as this kind of “tough” behavior might be, it never benefits those women and it certainly doesn’t make their dating life more interesting. On the contrary – by looking unapproachable and uninterested in meeting men, it perpetuates the very issue of not meeting enough quality guys that they are trying to fix.
No woman should wait till Thursday – Sat night outings to meet guys, unless she is interested in talking to guys who are so drunk that they won’t even remember talking to her the next day. If you are reasonably attractive or above, you should be able to meet guys on a bus on your way to work, or at a cafe during lunch, or at the grocery store, or anywhere else during your typical day. Eye contact and a smile are still the most effective ice-breakers with men, and there is no technology or dating app that can change that or replace the experience of meeting someone after making an eye contact with them.
Today, when so many people and especially women are glued to their cellphones almost 24/7, this is your opportunity to impress upon any guy who catches your eye that you are different from most other girls around. You are more confident, you are more friendly and you are more open to being approached and to meeting men. This kind of openness doesn’t make you look desperate or easy. This kind of behavior makes you more real than everyone else. If you practice this kind of more open behavior with your eye contact and a smile, you will be surprised by how soon the results will follow, and more guys will come up to you and talk to you, no matter where you are.
Many romantic movies put on our TV screens this exciting idea of meeting someone at the most unexpected time and place. If you have ever experienced this, you know that it is in fact exciting to meet someone when you expect it the least. This is one of those fantasies that should not be very hard to make a reality for most women. You just need to learn how to give the guys around you a green light to make a move and approach you.
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