I am not the biggest fan of being a “challenge” when it comes to dating, at least not as it is presented by some sources of dating advice. These are the blogs and books that suggest that making yourself unavailable, taking longer than you normally would to return e-mails and phone call, etc., would actually increase the attraction and the romantic interest of your dating partner. However, one response seems to be practically a part of our nature. We seem to lose romantic interest in our dating partner if he/she is too nice, too accommodating, tries to please us and tries to be the kindest and the most giving person to us.
